Careless Words

Around this time... hot and dry season. Trees wither, grass turning crispy. A careless spark will set a forest on fire.

Same for our words, a careless word spoken in anger can destroy a relationship that take years to build. Once spoken, it can never be taken back. Thinking of apologize? Sure... but scars will remain.

What to say and what not to say are both important. Not only to say the right thing at the right time, but also not to say a certain thing at a certain time is equally crucial.

Before we speak, ask if what we are going to say is true, necessary and constructive? ... because none of us can reverse the damage our words can potentially do.

Faith and Endurance

"When troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing". James 1:1-4

The point is not to pretend to be happy but to have a positive outlook when we face trouble. Tough times can teach us perseverance.

We can't really know the depth of our character until we are put under pressure. Instead of complaining about our struggles, we should try as much as we can to see them as opportunity for growth.

Be patient, for God will not leave us alone with our problems, He will always stay close to help us grow. This is His promise.